Only that she's doing this for him, and that he hasn't told her anything until after they were together. He hasn't been considering her in most of his decisions, doesn't initiate any type of romantic encounters, and appears to only think with his dick apparantly. I mean I know you said you had feelings for him, and you love him, maybe you can help tell her why, but that would require you to look back and ask yourself that question as well. It's not my place to tell anyone who to love, or how to love them. I just know doing a lot, for what appears to be little return.